Goodbye Claire
Obviously that won't mean anything to pretty much anyone reading this, but this post is mainly for me and on her behalf. Claire was someone I met back in 2008, and to cut a long story short, she seemed to be The One. And simultaneously The One That Got Away.
She was one of those people who everyone liked the moment they met her, and the first thing I noticed when I first saw her was this amazing smile she had. Something about that was hypnotising. We worked together for quite a while at a charity shop, and she was like a whirlwind of energy and positivity. Nothing seemed to get her down, and she helped me through some pretty crap times. But inevitably things didn't work out and she disappeared for a while.
(It wasn't the only reason, but her mum was a factor in that. She was fiercely protective of her daughter. It's not for me to judge - Claire hinted that something bad happened when she was at college, and maybe her mum was protective of her due to that. Honestly no idea. But from things Claire said, her mum had a habit of "interfering.")
Claire did turn up again a while back and we stayed friends - sometimes we'd bump into each other in the local town or she'd send an email.
I hadn't heard from her for well over a year, and then a few days ago someone in Halesowen asked if I knew that Claire had passed away. I checked her Facebook page and that devastating nugget of information turned out to be true. She died back at the start of March. One of those situations where you just can't believe it's happened, but of course, it had.
So she's gone and I never had chance to even say goodbye. And frankly it was heartbreaking to see that news. But it was at least comforting to see how many people had left messages on her page, saying how she had that amazing "radiant smile" and how much she helped other people over the years. Just one really nice comment after another.
So, goodbye Claire, and I'm so glad I had the chance to be your friend, however briefly.
She was one of those people who everyone liked the moment they met her, and the first thing I noticed when I first saw her was this amazing smile she had. Something about that was hypnotising. We worked together for quite a while at a charity shop, and she was like a whirlwind of energy and positivity. Nothing seemed to get her down, and she helped me through some pretty crap times. But inevitably things didn't work out and she disappeared for a while.
(It wasn't the only reason, but her mum was a factor in that. She was fiercely protective of her daughter. It's not for me to judge - Claire hinted that something bad happened when she was at college, and maybe her mum was protective of her due to that. Honestly no idea. But from things Claire said, her mum had a habit of "interfering.")
Claire did turn up again a while back and we stayed friends - sometimes we'd bump into each other in the local town or she'd send an email.
I hadn't heard from her for well over a year, and then a few days ago someone in Halesowen asked if I knew that Claire had passed away. I checked her Facebook page and that devastating nugget of information turned out to be true. She died back at the start of March. One of those situations where you just can't believe it's happened, but of course, it had.
So she's gone and I never had chance to even say goodbye. And frankly it was heartbreaking to see that news. But it was at least comforting to see how many people had left messages on her page, saying how she had that amazing "radiant smile" and how much she helped other people over the years. Just one really nice comment after another.
So, goodbye Claire, and I'm so glad I had the chance to be your friend, however briefly.